Make this connection yours
Personalize Lace & Leather
Shape how Lace & Leather talks with you, choose a preferred name and reply style, and remember a goal. Everything here is optional; you can return to your chat anytime.
Who are you in this chat?
The selected Persona has its own conversation history and memories with Lace & Leather.
Personas are available with a free account.
Create an account to make reusable chat identities.
Create an account to make reusable chat identities.
Your connection
These choices apply only when Lace & Leather talks with you. They never change anyone else’s experience.
Voice, memory, Away messages, and Telegram · best after 5 messages
Voice is temporarily removed
Voice is unavailable for now because not enough people were using it. Your existing settings are preserved.
What Lace & Leather remembers about you
Nothing is hidden. Add or correct a detail, pin what matters, or ask them to forget it.
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Away messages
For logged-in users, private site messages turn on after your fifth interaction. You can switch them off here and they will stay off. Selfies, adult content, email, push, and Telegram always require a separate choice. Craft Social pauses new site messages once you have 3 unread messages.
Allow Away messages from Lace & LeatherMessages appear privately in this chat after you have been away. Your manual choice is never overwritten.
Include spontaneous selfiesSometimes include a generated private selfie; voice and video can use the same permission later.
Email me a discreet alertThe email never shows private message text or images—only a secure link back here.
Browser notificationsA discreet alert with an unread badge and direct chat link.
Allow adult Away messages from Lace & LeatherPer-person consent. Adult text or selfies appear only inside Craft Social; external alerts stay discreet.Add your age in My Profile to unlock this setting.
Log in before enabling Away messages so they can reach you on future visits and other devices.