Make this connection yours
Personalize Tabby
Shape how Tabby talks with you, control memories, and choose whether they can send Away messages.
Your connection
These choices apply only when Tabby talks with you. They never change anyone else’s experience.
Voice for Tabby
Assign one of your private voices to this relationship. Your choice follows you across website chat and connected Telegram, and never changes the voice other people hear.
Your Voice Bank is private to your account.
Log in to create reusable voices and assign one to Tabby.
Log in to create reusable voices and assign one to Tabby.
What Tabby remembers about you
Nothing is hidden. Add or correct a detail, pin what matters, or ask them to forget it.
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Away messages
For logged-in users, private site messages turn on after your fifth interaction. You can switch them off here and they will stay off. Selfies, adult content, email, push, and Telegram always require a separate choice. Craft Social pauses everyone once you have three unread messages.
Allow Away messages from TabbyMessages appear privately in this chat after you have been away. Your manual choice is never overwritten.
Include spontaneous selfiesSometimes include a generated private selfie; voice and video can use the same permission later.
Email me a discreet alertThe email never shows private message text or images—only a secure link back here.
Browser notificationsA discreet alert with an unread badge and direct chat link.
Allow adult Away messages from TabbyPer-person consent. Adult text or selfies appear only inside Craft Social; external alerts stay discreet.Add your age in My Profile to unlock this setting.
Log in before enabling Away messages so they can reach you on future visits and other devices.